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At school whatever? I was at school. Life made a misery, so much so I used to miss a lot of lessons. By doing this I got in with some of the wrong people( including some of the bulies) , toughened me up. I hated it.

 

If you are bullying someone for fucks sake stop it. ;)

 

It can wreck lives in so many ways.

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I wasn't bullied, and I don't think I bullied anyone, although who knows cos I did take the piss a lot and it's hard to know how they felt about it - I always tried to involve them in the joke so it wasn't like I was making them feel awful for other people's entertainment, cos they were genuinely in on it and laughing along. If I felt like it had gone too far and they were offended, I'd stop.

 

Certainly never physically bullied anyone.

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I wasn't bullied, and I don't think I bullied anyone, although who knows cos I did take the piss a lot and it's hard to know how they felt about it - I always tried to involve them in the joke so it wasn't like I was making them feel awful for other people's entertainment, cos they were genuinely in on it and laughing along. If I felt like it had gone too far and they were offended, I'd stop.

 

Certainly never physically bullied anyone.

 

 

Practically Mother Theresa tbh

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I wasn't bullied, and I don't think I bullied anyone, although who knows cos I did take the piss a lot and it's hard to know how they felt about it - I always tried to involve them in the joke so it wasn't like I was making them feel awful for other people's entertainment, cos they were genuinely in on it and laughing along. If I felt like it had gone too far and they were offended, I'd stop.

 

Certainly never physically bullied anyone.

 

 

Practically Mother Theresa tbh

 

:lol: Just trying to present a fair case for myself. I know I took the piss a lot, but I don't think I ever victimised anyone. So there!

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Some of those shows are quite weird. When they bring someone on who wants to show their former tormentor that they're "all that and a bag of chips BABY!" now. They bring the tormentor out, bring the person out who "gets all up in their face" shouting about "LOOK AT ME NOW BABY! MM-HMM!" and all that, and this poor fucker is sat there completely bewildered going "Okayyyyy. I'm sorry, but I had NO IDEA that what I said affected you this badly. Are you absolutely certain that you didn't just want to be on TV and this seemed as good an excuse as any :lol: "

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Only time I can remember is by a lad in the year above for about a month or so because he fancied a lass I used to go out with. If you get your head round that. Basically he told me he was going to beat me up every time he saw me in the school yard. I could have got my nails cousin to chin him but I didn't want any agro tbh. I think he got bored/forgot/moved onto another victim. Saw the lad in question about a month ago in Forest Hall. He's a road sweeper now :lol:

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Aye and I bet he was keen to crack up conversation with you too, wasn't he?

 

I was the veritable punch bag at school and did myself no favours for never reacting to it. Have seen a few of the people who did it since I've left school and you'd think I was their best mate!

 

Admittedly one of them I did bump into came out and said he'd been an absolute arsehole to me during school and that he was genuinely sorry for what he did - not much use all those years afterwards, but I acknowledged the sentiment...

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Was bullied and occasionaly had a few casual beatings

 

you know where youve bruises everwhere but not on the face :lol:

 

The fuckers are all unemployed now or that or they work in gardens.

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I was on the receiving end a bit, but only verbal. Again I had the problem of being a bit quiet. Never took a kicking though. Only think I had 2-3 fights in my whole schooling. Two I came off better, the other I kinda went "aya aya aya ok stop" and that was it :lol:

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Got bullied back when I was a bairn in primary school. Since then i've probably been part of the goading and pisstaking groups that you may class as bullies but i've never dished out a beating. Therefore, I don't class myself as a bully.

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Tried to keep my head down as much as possible, and to be fair, there were usually plenty of far more deserving targets around. I can't even begin to imagine how any of the softer kids ever made it in adult life...

 

Was never really on the doling out end either, though we did make this one lad's life a bit of a misery for a while by ostracising him for having a boil-like growth on the side of his neck. Which I suppose was a bit random and unfair. It was minging though. :lol:

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Aye and I bet he was keen to crack up conversation with you too, wasn't he?

 

I was the veritable punch bag at school and did myself no favours for never reacting to it. Have seen a few of the people who did it since I've left school and you'd think I was their best mate!

 

Admittedly one of them I did bump into came out and said he'd been an absolute arsehole to me during school and that he was genuinely sorry for what he did - not much use all those years afterwards, but I acknowledged the sentiment...

Oh, I made a point of saying hello :lol:

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Tried to keep my head down as much as possible, and to be fair, there were usually plenty of far more deserving targets around. I can't even begin to imagine how any of the softer kids ever made it in adult life...

 

Was never really on the doling out end either, though we did make this one lad's life a bit of a misery for a while by ostracising him for having a boil-like growth on the side of his neck. Which I suppose was a bit random and unfair. It was minging though. :lol:

 

 

Is that really neccessary? :icon_lol:

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Tried to keep my head down as much as possible, and to be fair, there were usually plenty of far more deserving targets around. I can't even begin to imagine how any of the softer kids ever made it in adult life...

 

Was never really on the doling out end either, though we did make this one lad's life a bit of a misery for a while by ostracising him for having a boil-like growth on the side of his neck. Which I suppose was a bit random and unfair. It was minging though. :lol:

 

 

Is that really neccessary? :icon_lol:

 

I may be exaggerating somewhat. <_<

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Tried to keep my head down as much as possible, and to be fair, there were usually plenty of far more deserving targets around. I can't even begin to imagine how any of the softer kids ever made it in adult life...

 

Was never really on the doling out end either, though we did make this one lad's life a bit of a misery for a while by ostracising him for having a boil-like growth on the side of his neck. Which I suppose was a bit random and unfair. It was minging though. :lol:

 

 

Is that really neccessary? <_<

 

I may be exaggerating somewhat. :blush:

 

 

I thought so :icon_lol:

 

its a good word though :icon_lol:

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I wasn't bullied, and I don't think I bullied anyone, although who knows cos I did take the piss a lot and it's hard to know how they felt about it - I always tried to involve them in the joke so it wasn't like I was making them feel awful for other people's entertainment, cos they were genuinely in on it and laughing along. If I felt like it had gone too far and they were offended, I'd stop.

 

Certainly never physically bullied anyone.

 

Just defensive I bet - fat kids always get bullied :lol:

 

I was bullied in primary school for quite a while but it stopped when I kicked the lad 'where it hurts' as I used to say. He never bothered me again. Somewhat bizarrely, I was bullied at university by two people. You'd think people would grow out of that kind of thing, but evidently not.

 

Typical lezza tactics, kicking a lad in the cobblers!

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Never bullied anyone as its an appalling thign to do and there is no excuse for it.

 

Wasn't bullied either, which was strange considering i was a short arse, a swot, wore glasses and didn't follow any of the trends and other crap that everyone was into each particular year!

 

Actually, forgot to say it never happened at school, but when i was young a lad near where i live picked on me for a while until i smacked him in the face and after that he never bothered me and was always nice to em afetr that. Left me annoyed i hadn't twatted him from day one!!!

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