magelaide 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Get back on the horse (so to speak)? Cry for a week? Relationships are shit. I'm never going to be in one again. It does get easier, right?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Woodgate27 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Rebound sex. It does work, you think about someone else, intentionally or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magelaide 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Author Share Posted July 3, 2006 Female. Don't do breakup sex. Would probably lead to another relationship and as mentioned, they aren't good! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happy Face 29 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Alcohol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khay 10 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Best advice would be to not think about it and go do something else, read the hobbie thread for ideas. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magelaide 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Author Share Posted July 3, 2006 Best advice would be to not think about it and go do something else, read the hobbie thread for ideas. 155672[/snapback] I'm glad that I'm working 60 hour weeks for the next fortnight. Should help a little bit. Just hard to forget about someone you've spent over three years with. That's life I guess. Plenty more fish in the sea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Woodgate27 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Read the rancid turd threads in the gold section. Certain laughs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magelaide 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Author Share Posted July 3, 2006 Turds hey? I might find the boy in there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Maybe you need me to come and help you through this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Woodgate27 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Mr Smooth. I hope 'come' isn't a euphanism Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ted Maul 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Get drunk and send him/her abusive texts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kid Dynamite 7209 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Either shag for Britain for a bit (itl upset your ex whatever he says) or do all the stuff you put off for ages, get fit, go travelling etc. and do the whole 'life overhall' thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ted Maul 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Either shag for Britain for a bit (itl upset your ex whatever he says) or do all the stuff you put off for ages, get fit, go travelling etc. and do the whole 'life overhall' thing. 155727[/snapback] No, get pissed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adios 717 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 (edited) Either shag for Britain for a bit (itl upset your ex whatever he says) or do all the stuff you put off for ages, get fit, go travelling etc. and do the whole 'life overhall' thing. 155727[/snapback] Hang from a chandelier? I find suicide usually does the trick. Edited July 3, 2006 by DotBum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happy Face 29 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Either shag for Britain for a bit (itl upset your ex whatever he says) or do all the stuff you put off for ages, get fit, go travelling etc. and do the whole 'life overhall' thing. 155727[/snapback] Sage advice, if given to a man. But you're basically telling her to behave like a slut for a bit. Never wise. Sorry if that's a double standard but it's a fact. Keep your pants on for a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kid Dynamite 7209 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 over haul sorry! I astound myself with my powers of english sometimes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 10993 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 to be honest you'll need to go through the whole rigmarole(sp?) of post break-up healing if you're a girl. The "I want to be alone" phase The "I want my girlfirends to comfort me and console me" phase The "I hate all men as all men are bastards" phase The "I want to get back in the game phase, lets go out and get tiddly" phase The "I didn't find the perfect amalgam of Orlando Bloom, Jonny Depp, Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Colin Farrel on my first night out therefore all men are bastards and I'm destined to be alone" phase Finally you'll move onto the "I found someone who'll.. do" phase and then you'll be fine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magelaide 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Author Share Posted July 3, 2006 to be honest you'll need to go through the whole rigmarole(sp?) of post break-up healing if you're a girl. Finally you'll move onto the "I found someone who'll.. do" phase and then you'll be fine 155764[/snapback] Only someone that will do?? Good grief! It's so true about girls and having to go through the motions, the ex seems to be holding up really well ..like nothing has happened at all. Is it a guy thing to not care or process feelings and emotions? I would have thought that after spending so long with someone (even living with them!) that it would hurt to breakup. Obviously not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 10993 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 women always settle for someone who'll do, if they actually waited until their perfect partner came along they'd all be gay. Fact. anyhoo, you'll only try to change whoever it is you settle for Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kid Dynamite 7209 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 I also found that when feeling particularly bad about an ex, i had a wank and for a good ten minutes after i didnt care anymore! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 10993 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 oph and just because he's not showing his emotion, doesn't mean he's not feeling it. everybody deals with things in different ways, it's a cliche but it's true. he might go out and get hammered with his mates in five years time and something will trigger a memory of you and he'll break down in tears. conversely he might just be putting his straight face on around you and people who know you, so that he seems strong and independent, but inside he's pretty cut up about the whole thing. OR he could actually be over it and may have processed this faster than you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 10993 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 I also found that when feeling particularly bad about an ex, i had a wank and for a good ten minutes after i didnt care anymore! 155777[/snapback] that's also a fine way to recover from heart ache. Wrist Strain! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lazarus 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Buy a rampant rabbit! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sprucett_78 0 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 As a girl (yes its true) I find how I get over things depends on why it broke down... I seem to have a trend tho, stay in for a bit and do the whole quiet thing, then i seem to go party mad, find myself loving music and nights out , and dont care what anyone says, I go and have lots of sex....its not a rebound thing but just cos I can and I dont have a partner...stay out till 5am, go dancing on the beach with my mates with a bottle of vod till dawn... then i stay in again wishing i hadnt spent so much money... dont settle for someone who will just do tho, do what you want and things will come round and catch u unawares and one day you will realise you are smiling, could be a month could be a year, but its all ok in the end. Enjoy what you can, plenty more people to meet and clubs to dance in and friends to make. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 10993 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 dont care what anyone says, I go and have lots of sex.. 155889[/snapback] slut tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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