wykikitoon 21492 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Right guys I have an issue at work. Its a difficult one so Ill explain a bit of the background first. Right, firstly I got one of my old bosses a job here in Jan, hes come in as a Regional Director. I have known him for 12 years and he aint a bad lad really, a little misguided but all in all not a bad bloke. His manmanagement skills are somewhat lacking and organisation is none existant (DONT ask why I got him the job, Im asking myself that now!) Anyways, we work with a women, who 1) is dog shit at her job 2) is bone idle and will do anything to skive! She has only been in wokr 44 days this year, due to time off for courses etc etc. Well, since this old boss of mine has started she seems to be getting preferential treatment, she has 1.5h for lunch, she can take lunch when she wants, she leaves early, spends hours on the net, spends ages on the phone to family and friends, and generaly shrugs work off. Now, Ive mentioned this to my boss and he says all I do it moan (which in some ways its true) and dismisses it saying she works hard! Its not just me though thats seen it, others have too yet the will not open their mouths. I get in early and leave well over my hours, yet if I leave 5mins early this bloke questions my "core hours" Its starting to eat me and I dont wnat to come into work. I am part of three who work on all the jobs who at the end of the day our stuff is the stuff that goes to the clients. We therefore are relied upon the most, this fat wench doesnt give info soon enough, doesnt goto meetings as she is scared etc, she is generally a waste of a human skull! So, a couple of months ago I spoke to the Regional HR amanger and mentioned this and she said I should speak to the mian director. Its a difficult one as I dont want to feel like I am moaning especially on a bloke Ive know for so long. Now the twist, I found out my boss has fed the pony on this certain female colleague at the weekend and she repayed with some So what do I do? I am the most senior one in my role and therefore I am relied upon a LOT. I am in at 7:30am most days and leave at 5:30pm, yet some days its easy 8pm or later, with little or no lunch. This wench comes in at 9am and leaves for lunch at 12:00pm and then comes back mostly at 1:30pm then fucks off at 4:30pm, thats after phoning "momma" up in fucking Italy for an hour! She is diabetic and fuck me does she play on it, so she has "special" treatment to go for lunch early, FUCK OFF YOU WASTER!!! You can see im not affected by the fut cunt, so, what the fuck do I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimbo 175 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Either try and rise above it or mention it to somebody more senior. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 11079 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Although the traditional response is cunt punt, I'd say you have to above the guys head. Explani the situation is making you averse to work and that it wasn't a problem at all until these two started smushing wrigglies together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sniffer 0 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 First and foremost, you've done the right thing coming to this forum for advice. Clearly, you have your head screwed on properly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wykikitoon 21492 Posted May 28, 2009 Author Share Posted May 28, 2009 Its my own stupid fault in a way working above my hours, but hes always saying "you scratch my back and ill scrath yours" My back is red fucking raw because of the cunt! I buckle too easy when I get told "This needs to go tonight" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sniffer 0 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Go postal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renton 22409 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Can you prove they've had 'relations' out of work? If so you've got to whistleblow otherwise the injustice will eat you up. If not, try and set them up and get proof, then whistleblow. You're being taken for a mug which is a feeling I'm all too familiar with unfortunately (although not to this extent). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest alex Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 First and foremost, you've done the right thing coming to this forum for advice. Clearly, you have your head screwed on properly. Attention seeking arsehole. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sniffer 0 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 No, I think he's just looking for advice. Don't be so hard on him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 11079 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Its my own stupid fault in a way working above my hours, but hes always saying "you scratch my back and ill scrath yours" My back is red fucking raw because of the cunt! I buckle too easy when I get told "This needs to go tonight" Surely his back would be raw? The phrase infers that it's a two way street, but it soundslike his back is getting the scratching. I think you should reword this post so that there's no confusion. hope this helps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wykikitoon 21492 Posted May 28, 2009 Author Share Posted May 28, 2009 Its my own stupid fault in a way working above my hours, but hes always saying "you scratch my back and ill scrath yours" My back is red fucking raw because of the cunt! I buckle too easy when I get told "This needs to go tonight" Surely his back would be raw? The phrase infers that it's a two way street, but it soundslike his back is getting the scratching. I think you should reword this post so that there's no confusion. hope this helps Oh yes haha ooooppss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peasepud 59 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Diabetic you say? hmmmm.................... make her a cuppa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gemmill 47084 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Sit her in between you and your boss and tell her it's time for Ski Sunday, or you're reporting it to a higher power. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wykikitoon 21492 Posted May 28, 2009 Author Share Posted May 28, 2009 Sit her in between you and your boss and tell her it's time for Ski Sunday, or you're reporting it to a higher power. No thanks, she is rank! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tooj 17 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Sit her in between you and your boss and tell her it's time for Ski Sunday, or you're reporting it to a higher power. :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimbo 175 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Seriously, if you are considering taking it higher, I would recommend you keeping a diary of events that you feel is either unprofessional or favouritism. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tooj 17 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Quite interested in how Wykik is going to prove they are doing the Bohemian cluster fuck. Perhaps this thread has potential as another Toontastic classic. Obviously when you go to HR don't mention the fact you have asked for advise on an internet forum about this, they tend not to like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 11079 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 A photo of the scurrilous pair would help us give you the sage insightful/incite-full advice you so clearly need. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gemmill 47084 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 My advice would be to just leave it btw. If your workload isn't materially affected then I would just get on with it and quietly despise her. If the chance ever comes about on a night out to make outrageously inappropriate comments about her giving him a hand shandy, then go for it by all means - at the very least let on to him that people know the craic. That way he'll know that you and others know and he'll probably have to adjust his attitude a bit. Ski Sunday is always there as a fallback option. Make sure she sings the theme tune too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 11079 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 don't listen to Gemma, there's no point silently abhoring someone. Screw their life up at work and let us join in the sadistic revellry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gemmill 47084 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 I know work situations Fish Boy. You're still living on pot noodles. He should definitely listen to me over you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 11079 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 (edited) I know work situations Fish Boy. You're still living on pot noodles. He should definitely listen to me over you. I'm posting this from work numbnuts and if i can do that on my third day, I must be pretty savvy at this work malarkey, he should definitely listen to me and you're a ginge and therefore untrustworthy Edited May 28, 2009 by The Fish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snakehips 0 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Seriously, if you are considering taking it higher, I would recommend you keeping a diary of events that you feel is either unprofessional or favouritism. This. If anyone has work-related 'issues', a meticulous record is a good weapon in the armoury. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renton 22409 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 I know work situations Fish Boy. You're still living on pot noodles. He should definitely listen to me over you. I'm posting this from work numbnuts and if i can do that on my third day, I must be pretty savvy at this work malarkey, he should definitely listen to me and you're a ginge and therefore untrustworthy You started on a bank holiday? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 11079 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 ... no this is my third day, so that would make Wednesday my second and Tuesday my first idiot child Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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