Nah i don't mind mate, It's a place called Oakham, in Rutland.
There are trains and the like of around an hour to 'city like' locations such as Leicester and Nottingham, however most job searches in those places are commission based marketing and sales, i know it seems pretty contrary to say 'ill do anything to get away' and not even consider things like that, but something about those kind of positions sits dodgy on me xD
I definitely am not of the mind to stay here for life, i've got some good mates, and spent my 'growing up' years here gaining some good memories. But the thought of still being here in a decades time? just doesn't appeal.
I guess so, i mean you never want to blow your own trumpet (though any bloke that says they wouldn't if they could is a liar!) but i read it as she seems to think that keeping people in fear of their jobs and introducing stupid procedures and methods whilst increasing targets is an effective way of keeping people on the ball, i'd say that in fact encouragement and incentive would be a much better motivator, but i guess that's why i'm not a manager!
As for footholds, me father was in the forces for my entire life, never lived anywhere for more than a year or two at a time, only really settled here when he got his ankle fucked up in northern ireland and was medically discharged,
Both sets of parents relatives and the rest of my family all live up in newcastle, though because of the on/off relationship with how they saw my parents manage - i've never really spent a lot of time with them beyond mandatory visits as a young 'un.
Still it is something we have considered, especially as the gf's extended family are scottish and still live up there, meaning easier visits for her.
If where you are is now completely arbitrary and you're old enough to call the shots, then start calling them mate. There's better opportunity in Newcastle. Try and build bridges now you're grown up, you might actually like one or two of them.
I've not mentioned you quitting this job because you're already out of there. How can you let yourself continue to have that present/future? You're too good for those cunts and they know it. Society being what it is you're not encouraged to better yourself by your superior, you are denigrated as you remind them of their own inadequacies. Onwards and upwards for you (acknowledging you might have to gan backwards for a bit first).
Nah i don't mind mate, It's a place called Oakham, in Rutland. There are trains and the like of around an hour to 'city like' locations such as Leicester and Nottingham, however most job searches in those places are commission based marketing and sales, i know it seems pretty contrary to say 'ill do anything to get away' and not even consider things like that, but something about those kind of positions sits dodgy on me xD I definitely am not of the mind to stay here for life, i've got some good mates, and spent my 'growing up' years here gaining some good memories. But the thought of still being here in a decades time? just doesn't appeal. I guess so, i mean you never want to blow your own trumpet (though any bloke that says they wouldn't if they could is a liar!) but i read it as she seems to think that keeping people in fear of their jobs and introducing stupid procedures and methods whilst increasing targets is an effective way of keeping people on the ball, i'd say that in fact encouragement and incentive would be a much better motivator, but i guess that's why i'm not a manager! As for footholds, me father was in the forces for my entire life, never lived anywhere for more than a year or two at a time, only really settled here when he got his ankle fucked up in northern ireland and was medically discharged, Both sets of parents relatives and the rest of my family all live up in newcastle, though because of the on/off relationship with how they saw my parents manage - i've never really spent a lot of time with them beyond mandatory visits as a young 'un. Still it is something we have considered, especially as the gf's extended family are scottish and still live up there, meaning easier visits for her. If where you are is now completely arbitrary and you're old enough to call the shots, then start calling them mate. There's better opportunity in Newcastle. Try and build bridges now you're grown up, you might actually like one or two of them. I've not mentioned you quitting this job because you're already out of there. How can you let yourself continue to have that present/future? You're too good for those cunts and they know it. Society being what it is you're not encouraged to better yourself by your superior, you are denigrated as you remind them of their own inadequacies. Onwards and upwards for you (acknowledging you might have to gan backwards for a bit first).