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wolfy

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  1. Just get on with it you plank and stop making up silly excuses to ban me. Now I've gave you an excellent reason to permanently ban me, so get on with it and press that little forum button.
  2. Don't be so hard on yourself. Backward, yes. Retard? I wouldn't go that far with you, seriously.
  3. He's a free agent now, due to Newcastle releasing him from his contract but who had already completed his registration papers for the loan deal for the season at Brighton, so everything is above board.
  4. Not as easy as you made out, is it. Silly Billy.
  5. I'm not really after validating anything. That's how I see it. You can see it in any light you wish and that's where we'll differ.
  6. Course it was, but the sport is dying a death as a SPORT. It's becoming entertainment acting in many cases with the big money bouts. The losers are the minnows with real boxing heart. That's true boxing.
  7. The SPORT of boxing is dying. It's turned into a sort of WWE like entertainment for the ready and willing paying public. The fight build up is usually the entire highlight of the whole shebang. Money making of the highest order for those involved and a big two fingered salute to those paying good money to be basically ripped off. The real fights are on the UNDERCARD. The trouble is, real boxing is dying a death.
  8. WWE wrestling commands huge crowds. If you think there's no rigging in boxing or all sports, then you carry on. The gullible public will always be ready to empty their pockets for a bit of entertainment, because at the end of the day, that's what's put before us in the pay per view channels. All geared to relieving you of your hard earned cash for (in many cases) fights that already have an outcome before a punch is thrown.
  9. David Roche the sub. Wasted his career by being a wannabe gangster and getting into the drugs scene. Ended up in jail and later, kneecapped, wasn't he?
  10. Krul will have his odd good games but he's basically running on empty as anything like a decent keeper he was in the earlier years for us. Still, good luck to him and I hope he enjoys whatever time he has left as a keeper.
  11. You can tell who the genuine boxers are. They're the one's that don't have two ha-pennies to rub together. The sport that is boxing is dying a death because of farcical fights and also people Like Ferdinand and Flintoff, etc, being thrust into the limelight. I used to love boxing not too many years ago. Still do with the real warriors who do it from the heart. As for the heavyweights and the money making has beens. It's just a pay per view ACT. Such a shame.
  12. Basically the very same reason why anyone is on any other forum, for whatever the forum depicts.
  13. Your mammy must have smacked your bum something terrible. I don't really want to take you on, for two reasons. 1: You will end up crying like a baby soon enough. 2. Ant will ban me again to help you people out. I'm on a loser, aren't I.
  14. It's amazing how much hatred a different coloured shirt a person wears, can create, isn't it? A leather football and a football strip turns us into the very people we are striving not to be.
  15. wolfy

    Psychology

    It depends on the country.
  16. wolfy

    Psychology

    Many people fail because they a reliant on morals.
  17. wolfy

    Psychology

    You are entitled to think what you like.
  18. wolfy

    Psychology

    And then there's people like you.
  19. wolfy

    Psychology

    A lot of psychological problems in this day and age stem from materialistic things or the belief that you must own/use them in order to feel accepted. Our natural ability to survive in the so called wild diminishes by the day, for most. Many people are in jobs that they hate and dream of better, as well as better pay, but most will never take the step out of their hated comfort zone. People become institutionalised, kind of thing and lose the get up and go to venture further. The silver spoon brigade who live their lives on Mam and Dad's plastic, have only one never to be reached goal. That goal is more than what Mam and Dad can provide or anyone can provide, because nothing will ever appease people like this. The only goal of a soldier in a trench would have been to survive the trench. After that the soldier can set another goal of getting a job in civvy street. The next goal could be a woman to love. The next goal for a child and maybe another goal for another child, etc. Always a goal to strive for but always a goal that , by odds, is reachable. For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Basically speaking. You only get out what you put in, in equal measures.
  20. wolfy

    Psychology

    Being yourself and doing the things you want to do and also knowing that what you do, people rely on in whatever way that may be. Always set yourself a goal, not goals. Achieve your goal and set yourself another..and so on. Never set your goal so high that you find it hard to achieve, because not only does it up your stress levels and give you a feeling of failure, it also leaves your without real scope to set the next. One step at a time starting at the bottom.
  21. wolfy

    Psychology

    One biscuit leads to two and then three, then one packet is never enough, because with each regular amount of biscuits comes much less satisfaction that requires just one more. The end product of it all will be a sudden drop in those biscuits and a massive cold turkey come down. Basically speaking your goals will never be achieved but your ability to chase them will continue until you retire.
  22. wolfy

    Psychology

    From birth to death we are brain nurtured. Half of it is against our free will and the other half is our own inquisitive natural nature. The difference in getting to a stage of being yourself relates to how extreme your upbringing has been in terms of parental ideals and peer pressure. This is why some people carry a massive chip on their shoulders and why some can appear to almost fit seamlessly into roles of whatever life throws at them. The chained up scrapyard dog will kill you if you encroach on its territory, because that's all it knows, yet it will allow regular faces to interact with it. The very same scrapyard dog if brought up in a calm and giving household will be much more even tempered and will show a bark worse than the actual bite. I could add on but basically human beings share the same animalistic traits. It all boils down to how you are trained and how you later train your own mind to become the person you want to become and not the person that people expect that you are or want you to be. The trouble with life in general and the way society is, it's difficult for 99% of people to be themselves, wholly. Kindness is often taken for weakness. Fun nature is often taken for stupidity. Stand alone opinion against mass NURTURED opinion renders a person as an odd ball of society. We are governed by peer pressure, always. We are life mimics. Monkey see, monkey do, kind of thing. But there's always those monkeys that stand out as being weak or strong or intuitive. The stark reality of life is that most psychological issues aren't exactly massive issues but a requirement to fit an agenda in life. If every person in the world was everything we'd all like to be, then the world moves on without us in short order. The issues to address are the issues that any person feels they're strong enough to address to try and overcome a good percentage of the issue. A stutterer may never address the stutter without seeing an avenue to allow it but can control it to a much better degree or actually overcome it by being focused and training their mind. Same for all life's fixes. Nobody is ever comfortable with themselves or within themselves and that alone is the key for anyone to use as a yardstick to understand that all you have to do is to be comfortable enough to be yourself and work on what you want to work on, not what you're told to. Everyone can be better but you have to know what better means. Being a better person? A better friend? A better work employee or employer? A better social speaker? A better listener? I could go on and on but it's about fully identifying exactly what things trigger the feeling of inadequacy.
  23. wolfy

    Psychology

    A lot of people hide their true self behind a mask/shield. The issue with doing that is, it becomes a strain throughout life trying to keep up that stance. Many times with people it depends on the company they're in as to how they act. The operative word is ACT. People are almost coaxed into having to play different roles, more by expectation than a want. The podium speech giver whose job it is to address issues or convey messages, will take on that persona of a confident leader like stance and will be looked upon by almost all, as exactly that. However, his home life may be the opposite to what people would expect. He/she could be henpecked or rooster pecked, depending on...well...whatever. He/she could be a loner who goes home and drowns in a bottle of whatever alcohol he feels he needs to destress. He/she could come home and act all goofy with the kids....all after being the confident company giant that others fear/respect/want to emulate. On the flip side he/she could be the timid shy type that just gets on with their job and be the back seat person who sees almost everything as too much of a challenge to even dare take one extra step forward, yet the very same person could be the lord of the one place they feel is their stronghold. Their home, where they can become the exact opposite of what they portray at their workplace. They can become the nasty violent person, both physically and verbally and yet nobody would ever believe it if they were told. Everybody tries to fit in but not all people have the ability to learn to actually do it all, because most people refuse to actually be themselves, yet will argue black and blue that this is what you get. This is them and they're not acting any differently. The reality is entirely different. The key issues to address in how to get along in life and conquer a lot of fears, is to be all of the things you try to hide in any one situation. Basically show everyone the real you. the confident, the shy, the strong, the forceful, the lighter side, the fun side, all as a job lot. Doing something like that will render any potential violent side as a non-issue, because there's nothing to hide or suppress. Obviously that's more a perfect scenario but taking pointers for any of it goes a long way in training your mind to be YOU and not what others see you as in any stance you take, before each section of them
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